Being Patient

Two months ago at Trinity Washington University, I happily walked across the stage to receive my Master of Arts degree in Communications. I can truly say that I am proud of myself. I've accomplished so many things in my life and I had to conquer a lot of trials and tribulations too. As I sat in my seat listening to the keynote speaker, I couldn't help but to think about our economy and what is at stake. So many people are losing jobs, businesses, money, etc. It's enough to make you frustrated. I work in a non-profit association where I work closely with our members. Almost everyday I receive calls where a member has lost their job and cannot afford to pay their monthly dues. I'm not just talking about the middle class, but surprisingly the majority of them are in leadership positions.

I just wondered about the new graduates out there looking for work. Your friends and family encourage you to go to school to get a great education. However, once school is over, you are faced with real life in the workforce and it's hard to get in. I think I was culturally shocked when I finished school as an undergraduate. I had an internship during a previous summer and I became over confident that it will end up becoming my permanent job. Not so. Someone else was hired and it was too late. For 2yrs., I've struggled to find something. At the same time, I didn't know exactly what I wanted to do in Communications. Journalism wasn't really my cup of tea, broadcasting was too technical, and PR seemed too formal. I was able to work at a temp agency and was later hired at a non-profit association.

I like what I do. My job gives me the opportunity to provide excellent customer service to our members. Sometimes it may be rough or a slow day but all and all, it's not that bad. Right now, I would love to advance in my career, but I know it may take some time. So my message to new graduates is to be patient and don't give up. If you keep a positive mind and work hard to get where you want to be, you will get it. Reaching our goals is not an easy task but you will get there. Personally, I'm learning new things everyday. I'm going to continue to set positive goals for myself no matter how hard it may be.

Here is a helpful tip to motivate yourself. I used this and currently today, it still works:

Write down the goals you would like to set for yourself. Post it on your bedroom (or any room). Each day that goes by, take a look at that list to remind yourself that you will accomplish your goals. Keep a positive mind and remember not to give up.